It's not about having a life without regrets..

...it's learning to live a life with regrets..

Mind . Body . Soul

1 month ago..on 15/1/13, i scribbled :

Detox - Mind, body & soul

1 month later..on 15/2/13, i feel:

Exhausted - Mind, body & soul

I have outdone myself..

I have 32 drafts saved..ranging from one-liners to long 'essays'...though most of them are just 1 or 2 short paras of rantings..

They're not published..yet..as i think some of them are rather 'raw'..literally n figuratively..

Whether they will eventually see 'cyber-light'..oh well..who knows..who cares..

I'm impressed..

For someone who's halfway across the globe..she reads my movements pretty well..

Reposting..just because..

习惯了，就适应了
适应了，就麻木了
麻木了，就蹉跎了

习惯会上瘾，是建筑身心安乐窝最便宜，好用的材料。 科学家说， 动作重复三周以上形成习惯，重复三个月以上的习惯就稳定下来。
习惯也许因人而异，不能褒贬，就像睡觉原本就是一种享受过程。但是，如果拿未来的幸福当枕头，很容易会把快乐先睡死。这不是很难推断的结局， 选择其实明摆着，但城市人却心甘情愿地成为嗜睡的奴隶。

习惯也有生命，会贯彻思路，无中生有。墨镜戴久了，就会认定室内的灯光也会刺痛肉眼。
旧习惯难以死亡，除非新习惯找到动机。心灵一旦习惯了贫瘠， ‘我要快乐’便会继续成为缠根于脑海的念头， 怎么笑都不彻底，不痛快。

心理学家说:

播下一个行动, 收获一个习惯;播下一种习惯, 收获一种性格;播下一种性格, 收获一种命运’

想象能开创，自律加强执行力。 如果幸福被习惯偷走, 那么想象和自律，也许能把幸福夺回来归还你。思想决定出路，思想的修行更是点滴功夫， 没有捷径。快乐是一种习惯， 跟乐观， 热情， 积极，甚至成功一样。

明天的样子，取决于昨天的习惯； 若想改变， 就要抢当习惯的主人，

美好生活从今天的习惯开始。

 

First posted on 11 Aug 2011

It would have been a nice day to watch the sunset from Gardens By The Bay..

I don't like quarrelling..bickering yes..but no shouting matches, arguing till faces turn red, etc..Maybe i don't even know 'how' to quarrel..

To me, a quarrel (mostly) takes place when 2(or  more) people get(too) agitated..what's the point of trying to say something when the other party is obviously not at the most receptive..?

I once said, i prefer to lose an argument than to lose a friend..so i guess when i really get into a quarrel, i'm prepared to lose the person..