I don't like quarrelling..bickering yes..but no shouting matches, arguing till faces turn red, etc..Maybe i don't even know 'how' to quarrel..

To me, a quarrel (mostly) takes place when 2(or  more) people get(too) agitated..what's the point of trying to say something when the other party is obviously not at the most receptive..?

I once said, i prefer to lose an argument than to lose a friend..so i guess when i really get into a quarrel, i'm prepared to lose the person..